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Aunty Nangy 0 I tell him lies
Dear Aunty Nangy
I’m a 14-year-old girl dating a guy who is 20 years old. We love each other very much and we promised each other to be together for ever. The problem is he is truthful and I used to tell him lies. Aunty, please help me, what can I do for me to open my heart to tell him the truth?
At 14, you are still in your teens’ infancy and I doubt if the way you feel about this guy is permanent. Biologically, at this age you are at, hormones can wreak havoc and when most teenagers like you can stray for good. You are too young to be thinking about seriousness in a relationship so take it easy. I don’t know how I am supposed to advise you concerning your confession about telling lies. How serious are the lies and unless you say what lies you have told your boyfriend then I cannot help you. Aunty Nangy is not a prophetess.
I love both men
Auntie Nangy
I have a big problem. I am in love with two men. One is from my home village and my parents know him. It’s hard to choose who I should take and they are all serious.
Yes, you have a big problem especially if all of them are serious. It is very sad and worrisome that you seem unaware of the seriousness of the problem that you are facing. You put yourself at risk of sex and gender-based violence the day these men will know that they are in love with the same woman. Surely, one of them is better than the other one way or the other. Don’t say Aunty didn’t warn you. Act now before we write ‘Rest in Peace’ in your obituary.
She sleeps around
Dear Auntie Nangy
I am a 24-year-old guy and I have a lady who just sleeps around and she tells me that she is my girlfriend. Please Auntie, help me please. She is 40 years old. I need help.
I hope you are clever enough to be using protection because if it is true that she dishes out her cookie like that, then you are at risk of contracting HIV and other sexually transmitted infections. You are still young to be subjected to and stick around this generous sugar mummy. Dump this donor and get yourself a decent woman.
HIV positive, shy and afraid
Dear Aunty Nangy
I don’t know where to start. I’m 23 and lost my mum in 2014. I was in a relationship for eight years. We love each other so much. I just recently found out that we are HIV positive and I never told anyone in my family. I feel like telling my dad but we don’t stay together and I want to start with treatment but I’m shy and afraid. I didn’t expect this because my boyfriend is very sick in hospital and his family members are saying that I infected him. But, both of us do not know where it started. I was a blood donor before. Now I can’t because I’m shy of my status. Please help I also have little brothers to take care of.
I am happy that you have come out to ask about your challenge. It is good that you know that you are HIV positive and my advice to you is to share your status with the ones who are close to you. May people suffer from stigma because they do not share their status with close relatives and when the relatives find out they may discriminate against you. You must understand that being HIV positive is no longer a death penalty. Nowadays, there are drugs that you can take and lead a normal life like anybody else. You will still enjoy a healthy sex life and even have children who are HIV negative. All this information you can get when you go the nearest health clinic. Start with treatment as soon as possible. Please don’t be afraid and don’t be shy. People will always find someone to blame. The good thing is both of you are not blaming each other. What is important is for the two of you to get treatment, eat healthy foods and practise safe sex. You don’t have to worry about your little brothers because if you take your medicine correctly and eat healthy foods, then you will live long and never die of HIV.
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Aunty Nangy 0 I tell him liesDear Aunty Nangy
I’m a 14-year-old girl dating a guy who is 20 years old. We love each other very much and we promised each other to be together for ever. The problem is he is truthful and I used to tell him lies. Aunty, please help me, what can I do for me to open my heart to tell him the truth?
At 14, you are still in your teens’ infancy and I doubt if the way you feel about this guy is permanent. Biologically, at this age you are at, hormones can wreak havoc and when most teenagers like you can stray for good. You are too young to be thinking about seriousness in a relationship so take it easy. I don’t know how I am supposed to advise you concerning your confession about telling lies. How serious are the lies and unless you say what lies you have told your boyfriend then I cannot help you. Aunty Nangy is not a prophetess.
I love both men
Auntie Nangy
I have a big problem. I am in love with two men. One is from my home village and my parents know him. It’s hard to choose who I should take and they are all serious.
Yes, you have a big problem especially if all of them are serious. It is very sad and worrisome that you seem unaware of the seriousness of the problem that you are facing. You put yourself at risk of sex and gender-based violence the day these men will know that they are in love with the same woman. Surely, one of them is better than the other one way or the other. Don’t say Aunty didn’t warn you. Act now before we write ‘Rest in Peace’ in your obituary.
She sleeps around
Dear Auntie Nangy
I am a 24-year-old guy and I have a lady who just sleeps around and she tells me that she is my girlfriend. Please Auntie, help me please. She is 40 years old. I need help.
I hope you are clever enough to be using protection because if it is true that she dishes out her cookie like that, then you are at risk of contracting HIV and other sexually transmitted infections. You are still young to be subjected to and stick around this generous sugar mummy. Dump this donor and get yourself a decent woman.
HIV positive, shy and afraid
Dear Aunty Nangy
I don’t know where to start. I’m 23 and lost my mum in 2014. I was in a relationship for eight years. We love each other so much. I just recently found out that we are HIV positive and I never told anyone in my family. I feel like telling my dad but we don’t stay together and I want to start with treatment but I’m shy and afraid. I didn’t expect this because my boyfriend is very sick in hospital and his family members are saying that I infected him. But, both of us do not know where it started. I was a blood donor before. Now I can’t because I’m shy of my status. Please help I also have little brothers to take care of.
I am happy that you have come out to ask about your challenge. It is good that you know that you are HIV positive and my advice to you is to share your status with the ones who are close to you. May people suffer from stigma because they do not share their status with close relatives and when the relatives find out they may discriminate against you. You must understand that being HIV positive is no longer a death penalty. Nowadays, there are drugs that you can take and lead a normal life like anybody else. You will still enjoy a healthy sex life and even have children who are HIV negative. All this information you can get when you go the nearest health clinic. Start with treatment as soon as possible. Please don’t be afraid and don’t be shy. People will always find someone to blame. The good thing is both of you are not blaming each other. What is important is for the two of you to get treatment, eat healthy foods and practise safe sex. You don’t have to worry about your little brothers because if you take your medicine correctly and eat healthy foods, then you will live long and never die of HIV.