aunty nangy 1 septemberHe has gone silent
Dear Aunty Nangy
I am a 23-year-old woman and I have a problem with my boyfriend. He doesn’t text me anymore. I even texted him and still he didn’t reply my text. I really love him too much. What can I do? Help me please.
Sometimes we rush to make negative conclusions. Your boyfriend could be having genuine reasons for not communicating with you. It could be that he lost his phone or might not be feeling well at all. I suggest that you ask someone who is close to him like a friend or relative that you know. I am sure someone who knows that you are an item will help you to find out why he is not communicating.
I still love him
Dear Aunty Nangy
I am an 18-year-old girl. I have a problem. I don’t know what to do, can you help? I was dating a guy who is 20 years old and he drives a taxi. He loves me and I love him too but we broke up last month. I don’t know what to do can you help me.
The love you have for this man seems to have drained you of your reasoning capacity. You are living in denial and that is a big problem. If you have broken up then why are you so hopeless? Please find another soul mate.
Can I fall pregnant four days after periods?
Dear Aunty Nangy
Is it possible for me to fall pregnant four days after having my monthly period if I had unprotected sex?
Different people have different monthly cycles. Some women have their periods every 28 days while others have them every 30 or even 33 days. It is not possible to fall pregnant after only four days because the time is too short to make a new egg and for it to mature to be fertilised and make a baby. But always remember that if your cycle is not the same every month then it is difficult to know when it is dangerous to have sex without falling pregnant. If you are not ready to have a baby then please go to the nearest clinic and get advice on the best contraceptives to use for family planning. In Namibia this service is offered free of charge.
Too old for me
Dear Aunty Nangy,
I am a 22-year-old girl and my boyfriend is 26. He loves me too much but he is old for me. Help me.
A difference of only four years! I am sure you made a mistake. Your boyfriend must be older than 26 because the difference in your ages is very small. After all age is just but a number!
Vaginal discharge worrying me
Dear Aunty Nangy,
I am 17 years old and I always have a white discharge coming from my vagina. Please help me.
The best advice that I can give you is to see your doctor as soon as possible. I cannot tell what that white discharge is. It could be nothing serious or it can also be symptoms of a serious infection or disease.
What must I eat to get fat?
Dear Aunty Nangy
I want to become fat. What must I eat? Help me please.
There are certain foods that will help you to gain weight but remember some people will never gain weight no matter how much they eat fattening foods. The following foods will help to make you gain weight.
You should include the following foods in your diet: White rice, peanut butter, bananas, tuna fish, full cream milk, eggs, nuts and cheese to name a few.
I am shy to tell a woman I love her
Dear Aunty Nangy
I am a 22-year-old boy and my problem is that I don’t know how to approach or propose a girl. What can I do? Help me Aunty.
I can see that you belong to the shy camp. You are not the only one and there is nothing fearful about telling a woman that you love her. There are so many ways to tell her. Ask her out and take her to a quiet place where you can sit and talk. You don’t have to tell her verbally but there are so many ways to show a woman that you love her. You can hold her hand and gently rub it, look into her eyes when you are talking to her, send her romantic messages, tell her she is beautiful, run your fingers through her hair or just gather the confidence to tell her you love her. You don’t need to go to university to tell a woman that you love her. Action speaks louder than words my dear.