Sex workers stand up for their rightsDecriminalising sex work a vital first step High levels of violence and other human rights infractions form part of each day for Namibian sex workers, who are calling for the profession to be decriminalised and their safety and health better protected.
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JANA-MARI SMITH
Poverty, abuse and being shunned by a homophobic and trans-phobic community were some of the push factors named by three women as their gateway into sex work in Namibia.
But despite the dangers and the discrimination they face daily, Bella (23) says she treats her work just like any other profession.
“I see it as any other job. It's just what you do, not who you are. I am still a sister, a brother, a friend.”
For her, being paid for sex is “just a job like any other job.”
She further noted that sex is part of everyday life, for the majority of humans.
“Married people have sex, girlfriends and boyfriends have sex. People have sex. Everyone has sex. So it's normal.”
For Bella, the path to sex work was nevertheless rocky, marred by severe poverty, homophobia, intolerance and abuse.
Ultimately, however, she found the profession can be embraced.
Growing up in a poor household, and knowing early on that she was gay (she later transitioned to a trans-woman), she knew she would struggle to find acceptance.
“But that is who I am. That is who I want to be.”
At 14, she was raped. She told no one, because she did not think she would be believed.
The incident, while traumatic, underscored the importance of forging a life independent of having to rely on others.
After her first client, in high school, she realised she could achieve independence.
“I chose this. Since I was gay, and now a trans-woman, I needed to look after myself. So that is how I ended up here.”
Severe poverty brought me here
“I was raised by a single mother and we weren't financially stable. I had to assist with my younger siblings, with food. I became involved with friends who were in the trade, older women. They told me what to do,” Memory (27), a Walvis Bay-based sex worker told Namibian Sun last week.
Aware of the widespread prejudice and discrimination by the wider public, including health and police workers, she says it's time Namibians “give us a chance.”
Memory said people have to look beyond their judgement.
“It's not always that you do this job out of your own free will. Sometimes it's a life situation that brings you to this point.”
Ultimately, Memory has made peace with the job, despite having experienced harassment from many sectors of society.
Another Walvis Bay sex worker, who declined to be named, said poverty, and sexual abuse, pushed her into the profession.
Now 30, she is concerned about the ongoing high levels of abuse and discrimination, often at the hands of those tasked to assist the public.
“I think for us as prostitutes, we don't have access to proper health care. So if something happens, you don't go to the hospital or the police. You just stay home. You deal with it.”
My choice
Bella, like all sex workers interviewed by Namibian Sun, is in favour of decriminalising the profession.
A book she discovered as a teenager showed that sex work was “not only about bad things, there are also good things.”
And, as a poor, gay teenager, and later as a trans-woman, she found that sex work could help achieve her goal of being self-dependent, as well as allowing her to be who she wanted to be.
Now, she works part-time as a sex worker, and she believes there are benefits to the job, such as luxurious gifts and other treats from customers who are happy with her service. She says it's important to always “go the extra mile.”
The downside
“Sometimes you have to hide what you do. People discriminate. You are stigmatised, which puts you in a vulnerable position.”
She has, like most sex workers, faced an uphill battle accessing services from police and health workers.
After she was severely beaten by a client, she claims the police taunted her, accusing her of “asking for it”. She has been forced to beg for medications at a health clinic.
Further, as a trans-woman, the discrimination is rife.
“It's not easy darling, I guarantee you.”
Memory, Bella and their co-worker spoke to Namibian Sun at the International Sex Workers Rights Day attended by more than 60 sex workers from across the country last Friday.
The Namibia Diverse Women's Association (NDWA) noted after the event that “sex workers in Namibia face numerous and unacceptable levels of violence, stigma, prejudice, discrimination and other human rights violations.”
Programming and interventions currently under way are focused on female sex workers whilst other sex workers such as male sex workers and transgender sex workers are not targeted, which again marginalises them, NDWA warned.