Think before you click There are three types of people I want to talk about today. Cheaters, people who share personal intimate content on social media and people who entertain that idea.
There were so many things that we vouched to dump at the end of 2016 but it seems we have even upped the gear doing them. The things that people are doing now really require us to pray for our souls because we are heading down a very dirty path and it's not funny.
Guys, we need to know when to start and when to stop. I know that we are all human and sometimes there will be issues we won't be able to control but we really need to try harder when it comes to controlling our feelings. When it comes to relationships, there are things that you should and shouldn't do. It's a habit that has been associated with Namibian men but the ladies are also catching up. But, like I said, we are not perfect. This tolerance of infidelity or cheating has to stop for our own good. There are many reasons why people get into relationships. It could be for love, money, pressure from parents or some people just can't stand living solitude lives. To others, relationships gets them recognition. I always advise people to discuss with their partners what they are looking for in their romantic situations because your partner may be looking for a relationship for different reasons from yours and in the end one of you will be hurt or disappointed. People can be very understanding and it's something we underestimate. Yea, it may take two to three years for someone to get over the heartbreak of losing someone and isn’t it better to save that person the embarrassment and pain? Don't put someone in a position you won't want to be in. You may get away with it at the beginning but you never know when you will run out of luck.
I also understand that there's a time when one needs to shake things up a little bit in the bedroom but there are so many ways of enjoying each other's company without having to capture it. Yes the Americans have done it and even made millions out of it but darling, this is Namibia. And the other point is all good things do come to an end and soon after that, the person whom you thought you were in love with isn't who they are after your relationship is over. Do other things but do not get it recorded. Trust can easily be manipulated and with the evolution of the internet, it just takes one click of a button and voila, the damage is done. It is a compeltely different thing when you are being filmed without your consent but the moment he or she pulls out that phone, run! You may be thinking that no one will catch you because the videos or nudes have gone viral but investigations can be carried out and there goes your career and life down the drain. If you are angry, leave your phone and PC for some time until you have cooled down. Don’t post things while angry or upset. Your actions have serious consequences.
I’m sure all of us remember the nursery rhythm “The wheels on the bus go round” and we should be applying that in our daily lives. What happened today to John Doe can happen to you or someone close to you. The public shaming and humiliating of someone can have permanent negative effects on them. What if they commit suicide because of you? Let’s have limits guys. Karma is really bad and we all have our skeletons tucked away in our closets. Don’t celebrate other people’s misfortunes. And remember what goes around comes around!
June Shimuoshili
There were so many things that we vouched to dump at the end of 2016 but it seems we have even upped the gear doing them. The things that people are doing now really require us to pray for our souls because we are heading down a very dirty path and it's not funny.
Guys, we need to know when to start and when to stop. I know that we are all human and sometimes there will be issues we won't be able to control but we really need to try harder when it comes to controlling our feelings. When it comes to relationships, there are things that you should and shouldn't do. It's a habit that has been associated with Namibian men but the ladies are also catching up. But, like I said, we are not perfect. This tolerance of infidelity or cheating has to stop for our own good. There are many reasons why people get into relationships. It could be for love, money, pressure from parents or some people just can't stand living solitude lives. To others, relationships gets them recognition. I always advise people to discuss with their partners what they are looking for in their romantic situations because your partner may be looking for a relationship for different reasons from yours and in the end one of you will be hurt or disappointed. People can be very understanding and it's something we underestimate. Yea, it may take two to three years for someone to get over the heartbreak of losing someone and isn’t it better to save that person the embarrassment and pain? Don't put someone in a position you won't want to be in. You may get away with it at the beginning but you never know when you will run out of luck.
I also understand that there's a time when one needs to shake things up a little bit in the bedroom but there are so many ways of enjoying each other's company without having to capture it. Yes the Americans have done it and even made millions out of it but darling, this is Namibia. And the other point is all good things do come to an end and soon after that, the person whom you thought you were in love with isn't who they are after your relationship is over. Do other things but do not get it recorded. Trust can easily be manipulated and with the evolution of the internet, it just takes one click of a button and voila, the damage is done. It is a compeltely different thing when you are being filmed without your consent but the moment he or she pulls out that phone, run! You may be thinking that no one will catch you because the videos or nudes have gone viral but investigations can be carried out and there goes your career and life down the drain. If you are angry, leave your phone and PC for some time until you have cooled down. Don’t post things while angry or upset. Your actions have serious consequences.
I’m sure all of us remember the nursery rhythm “The wheels on the bus go round” and we should be applying that in our daily lives. What happened today to John Doe can happen to you or someone close to you. The public shaming and humiliating of someone can have permanent negative effects on them. What if they commit suicide because of you? Let’s have limits guys. Karma is really bad and we all have our skeletons tucked away in our closets. Don’t celebrate other people’s misfortunes. And remember what goes around comes around!
June Shimuoshili