Aunty Nangy In love with a married manI am in love with a marriage man. We fell in love before he got married but I found out that he was engaged after we had fallen in love. When he got married I wanted to break up with him but I love him so much. Can we still continue or what can I do?
You baffle me with your confession about continuing with a romantic relation with a married man and seem content playing second fiddle. You even decided to continue after finding out that the man was engaged to another woman whom he married and kept you in his sex side lane. This is not love and you have deliberately and consciously decided to be used as his sex toy. This is prostitution and you know it. This man cheated on you and you want to tell the world that you are so much in love you can’t ditch him. After you discovered that he was engaged you continued sleeping with him and worse still after he made nuptial vows and married the woman he truly loved and you are still not seeing that you have never meant anything to this casanova. He has lied to you and his wife but it is your behaviour that is pathetic because what you think is a problem is not a problem - you are the problem. Shame on you and your man! You are both knowingly in a love triangle that is a high risk to other people who may be caught in this cycle. Stop spreading the HIV fire and save lives!
22 and still no periods
I am a 22-year-old girl and my problem is, I have not started my periods yet. What must I do?
By now you should have started but there could be a medical or biological reason why you have not started. Please seek medical help so that you don’t stress yourself.
Wound on my member worrying me
I have a small wound on tip of my penis can you help me please?
According to Dove Med, male genital sores can be painful or painless, single or multiple and they may or may not be associated with other symptoms. They usually arise from a sore area (including from blisters). Since sexually transmitted infections (STIs) are the most common cause of genital ulcers, evaluation and treatment of both the individual and their partner(s) should be done by a healthcare provider to rule out other associated diseases.
Who is barren?
l am 31 years old and I am dating a woman aged 26. She doesn’t have a kid in her life but l have, from another woman. We have been living together for seven years now but no kid. Who is having a problem?
It should not be a blame game. Many times couples fail to have a baby and there is nothing wrong between them. It is difficult for me to tell if it is you or your woman who has a problem because I am not a medical expert. You can see a health specialist to do investigations so that you know why the two of you cannot have a baby. You have a kid with another woman but because some dishonest and cunning women sleep with many men and chose one, usually the best financially to be the fathers of the child while the kid was fathered by Tom. I suggest that the two of you should visit a doctor.
She refuses to sleep with me
I have a problem. My girlfriend is always asking me to buy her a smart phone and many more. But, when I called her to come and sleep next with me she does not want. She claims that I am his one and only. Is this the case really? Can you help me Aunty?
True love is unconditional and this is what your relationship with this girl is not. She has asked you to buy her expensive gifts and many more from what you say and you did because you love her, I assume. Now you want her to pay back by sleeping with you or what? That is not how it works. You need to understand why agreed to buy her the gifts in the first place. Was it out of love or was it to induce her to sleep with you? I suggest you find a nice way of talking to her so that you understand how you feel about this issue. I understand the way you feel because you are saying one good turn deserves another, right? Maybe she is preserving herself for you only so stop thinking about the things that you bought her but about maintaining a healthy honest relationship and the day you will take her on your honeymoon and you will break the seal.