Curbing comparison 0 I refer to comparison as “inspiration gone wrong.” It is a natural habit to observe others and learn from their accomplishments or failures. We are inspired by people around us to take actions in our own lives towards or away from particular choices.The ultimate goal in life for most people is to be successful and happy, depending on their own definitions of success and happiness.Ask yourself these following questions: Do you feel jealous when others succeed? Do you feel glad when others fail? Do you behave arrogantly when you succeed? Do you try to diminish others achievements with negativity? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you have a comparison tendency. However, you are not alone, these are natural feelings that everyone encounters. The key is; knowing how to deal with these emotions at their onset before they consume you. Redirect your thoughts into positive attitudes and the best way to do this is to; continuously build up your self-esteem, when you value and love yourself, you will reflect that towards other people.
Curb comparison; get inspired by others to achieve your personal goals. Be observant yet focused on your own lane. There is a unique journey of success that is meant only for you.
Ndapanda Auala
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