Auntie Nangy We both cheated
Dear Auntie Nangy
I have been with my girlfriend for the past four years and everything has been going well until I cheated on her because I got bored. I didn’t tell her about it but now we are in a good space. I was shocked to find out that she knew about my cheating and also went and cheated on me and I am very angry. What must I do?
Wait, why are you angry? Because she did exactly what you did? You were bored, she was probably bored. Oh child, you two are a pretty bored couple. So now you are angry with a bored and an angry cheater, what a combination. Stick together; you both kinda deserve each other. Peace!
Best of the kids
Dear Auntie Nangy
I am the middle-born child in my family and I am the most successful. My siblings kind of hate me as our parents make it clear that I’m the favourite child. Should I lower my standards for my siblings or what must I do? I feel so bad for them. Please advise.
The worse mistake parents can make is to make one child feel less than the other. You shouldn’t lower your standards, but you should acknowledge your privilege, and be sensitive to the feelings of your siblings. Tell them that you see the inequality too, but you don’t have control over it. At the same time, point it out to your parents, tell them that you don’t like the way they treat you and your siblings. But mostly remember, family is the one place where love is always enough. Keep working on rebuilding your relationship with your siblings.
Where is my wet dream?
Dear Auntie Nangy
I am 17 years old and I am yet to have my first wet dream. All my friends got theirs from age 15 and talk about getting sexually active but I always keep quiet becuase I have no experience. Am I not normal?
You are normal; your wet dreams will come. You will eventually come when you need to come, pun intended. Just be patient, but if you are overly concerned you could consult with a doctor and just have him check up on you to ease your mind.
Best friend flirting with my crush
Dear Auntie Nangy
My best friend is flirting with my crush and my crush is noticing her. She knows I like the guy but still does this. Is she still my friend? What must I do to make the guy notice me? We are in the same class at school. Please help me.
Oh child, she is certainly your friend and having a “crush” on someone does not mean it is mutual or that you have ownership of that person. You don’t need to do anything to be noticed… if you are yourself that should be enough. If he doesn’t notice you, maybe he just isn’t interested. Direct your “crushing” in another direction okay. Also, pay attention in class, focus on finishing school, you have an entire future filled with crushes.
Dear Auntie Nangy
I have been with my girlfriend for the past four years and everything has been going well until I cheated on her because I got bored. I didn’t tell her about it but now we are in a good space. I was shocked to find out that she knew about my cheating and also went and cheated on me and I am very angry. What must I do?
Wait, why are you angry? Because she did exactly what you did? You were bored, she was probably bored. Oh child, you two are a pretty bored couple. So now you are angry with a bored and an angry cheater, what a combination. Stick together; you both kinda deserve each other. Peace!
Best of the kids
Dear Auntie Nangy
I am the middle-born child in my family and I am the most successful. My siblings kind of hate me as our parents make it clear that I’m the favourite child. Should I lower my standards for my siblings or what must I do? I feel so bad for them. Please advise.
The worse mistake parents can make is to make one child feel less than the other. You shouldn’t lower your standards, but you should acknowledge your privilege, and be sensitive to the feelings of your siblings. Tell them that you see the inequality too, but you don’t have control over it. At the same time, point it out to your parents, tell them that you don’t like the way they treat you and your siblings. But mostly remember, family is the one place where love is always enough. Keep working on rebuilding your relationship with your siblings.
Where is my wet dream?
Dear Auntie Nangy
I am 17 years old and I am yet to have my first wet dream. All my friends got theirs from age 15 and talk about getting sexually active but I always keep quiet becuase I have no experience. Am I not normal?
You are normal; your wet dreams will come. You will eventually come when you need to come, pun intended. Just be patient, but if you are overly concerned you could consult with a doctor and just have him check up on you to ease your mind.
Best friend flirting with my crush
Dear Auntie Nangy
My best friend is flirting with my crush and my crush is noticing her. She knows I like the guy but still does this. Is she still my friend? What must I do to make the guy notice me? We are in the same class at school. Please help me.
Oh child, she is certainly your friend and having a “crush” on someone does not mean it is mutual or that you have ownership of that person. You don’t need to do anything to be noticed… if you are yourself that should be enough. If he doesn’t notice you, maybe he just isn’t interested. Direct your “crushing” in another direction okay. Also, pay attention in class, focus on finishing school, you have an entire future filled with crushes.